In the Meantime...

Finally, the storm has subsided and there is calmness in my life. Last three months have been extremely hectic and chaotic. Four new business pitches: two short-listed and one won. Eighteen-hour days for three straight months is potentially dangerous to one’s health – I would’ve strangled someone if not for the two quick trips to my paradise isle in-between. Sri Lanka, the small miracle, is an amazing stress reliever. A quick trip is a quick fix, and it works like magic, always. A drink by the sea, a bite of seafood, some quality time with the family and friends and a long drive around the country is just what the doctor ordered.

Then there was Ramadan: the season of fasting and feasting. It is also the season to contemplate and reflect upon life. Since it is the time to forgive and forget, I made some sincere efforts to iron out some hostilities of the past, and succeeded. I’m not the one to hold any grudges, life is too short and too precious to be upset with (and continue to be upset with) people.

Ramadan came and went, sending me off to Sri Lanka just before the Eid-break. Would’ve chosen Beirut or Istanbul if the circumstances were different, but home is home always. Missed out on the usual feasts of biriyani and watalappam – especially the yummy one that comes our way from Spikey’s grandma every year. Instead, we were cooling off in our Kataragama retreat, enjoying the wonderful food and company of “Pans” and the clan. The river seems to have a consistent water-flow since the dam was built, making it the ideal natural spa all year round. A sip of Cranberry+Vodka when immersed neck-deep in river-water tastes a million times better than any Cape Cod I’ve tasted anywhere in the world.

Anyhow, I’m glad that the mad rush is over. I’m rejuvenated and ready for the next lap, back in the holy city of Jeddah.

In the meantime, amongst other worldly happenings:

  • Got tagged. Will define what love means to me, in due course. Promise.
  • Hijinx and Delilah contemplated quitting. They even wrote the last chapters. Glad they didn’t.
  • Got the Saudi driving licence in a day. Was pleasantly surprised to discover that their “computer exam” is offered in Sinhala too – even though I chose English to be on the safer side.
  • Received a Dentsu global nomination for some work I’ve done last year.
  • Was a member of the jury judging a public awareness campaign in Saudi Arabia.
  • Bought the brand new Golf. Being a car that runs less than 10km a day, it is going to take a long time for me to break-in the engine before I could take it for a spin...
  • Dee does the much-awaited video collage. Nice.
  • My birthday passed by without a sip of alcohol. A record in 15 years, if not more.
  • Realised that I am much happier than 10 years ago – even though I have less assets and less people to boss-around.
  • Got in touch with the kids, thanks to the ex-wife who decided that the communication channels should now be open. So there’s a lot of Skype and time online. Much to catch up; much less time for blogging. Sorry, priorities are priorities.



    Fuck I missed you! I was wondering where the hell are you, but unfortunately did not have any contacts so had no way to contact. Glad you're back though.

    Keep blogging dude...

  2. I missed you too! :D you seem to have had quite a busy three months! and glad to see the Gestapo finally opening up the iron curtain... (ok that statement doesn't make historical sense but you know what I mean yeah?) :)

    and like Sach said, keep blogging man! :)

  3. Welcome back!Glad you get to keep in touch with the kids more and cograts on that award!!!

  4. Congratulations, its great to know that u are well, and in touch with the kids. Take care :)

  5. "Ahannath Sathutuy" eka thamay jewithe neda wijitha ayya....
    keep blogging,

  6. Welcome back too, from one divorced Dad to another you have my best wishes with being back in touch with your kids.

  7. Nice pictures. *looks sheepish at mention of last chapter* Wow! You've been out doing stuff. Has no one told you that life outside the internet is a lie? :P